My wife submits to me :) She has been learning to do the biblical thing for the past 12 plus years. The more she learns to submit, the more our marriage reflects Christ. The more she submits to me, the better we get along. It's the way God intended it to be.
I could stop at that, but I believe that I would be on the verge of being heretical, and I certainly would be well on my way to sleeping on the couch for the next seven years - at which time she would be required to forgive me.
I need to add to that first paragraph; the more I learn to submit, the more our marriage reflects Christ. The more we submit to one another, the better we get along. It's the way God intended it to be. There - that reads a bit more like Christ submitting to the Father, the Father giving the glory to the Son, and the Son again pointing to the Spirit. The three working together. And in our human case, a significantly less perfect relationship, but striving to be a reflection of Christ nonetheless, and we learn to submit to one another.
My wife attended a seminar earlier this week regarding "the role of women in the church today." While the presenter was attempting to convey his biblical perspective, it was all about "submission" in the sense of women being "under" men. While he derived his perspective from Bible passages, I have no doubt that his perspective misses the point of the passages.
There are two significant issues that I hold against people who are so bull headed, and who are so confident in their positions. First, They are filled with arrogance. They are so convinced of themselves that they are prideful. It's as if they have touched the face of God, and all people with positions that differ are void of God. When I think of those who walked closely with God, I can't remember any of them that were arrogant. Those who were most arrogant, as Jesus pointed out, were the religious leaders of his day. They believed they knew exactly how to please God. They had spirital widson that others lacked. They could pray for hours, and they could give spiritual direction. Oops. They had it all wrong. It's too bad their pride and arrogance hindered them from becoming disciples of the Son of God. Oops.
And not to forget my second point, the arrogance of any male who believes he should always lead. The arrogance to believe that simple the designation of testicles and a penis makes one more likely to walk closely with God. To think that I have the answers in all situations, to think that I am always more spiritually alive, to think that I am always reflecting Christ's love better, to think that my spiritual opinion is always more correct --- what is that --- sin? Maybe... gulp.
I'm tired of these people screaming their arrogance toward me, and it's no wonder that so much of our world continues to walk out the doors of "church" never to return. We have failed these people not because we slipped down any slope toward the muck that is void of God. We have failed because we continually fail to love as Christ loved. He gave himself. He allowed six inch nails to be pounded through his flesh.... and we are arrogant enough to think that we have all the answers. Let us feel his flesh being torn apart, and let us remember that if we are not
all about Christ
we are about nothing at all.